It says that words only hurt if they are hard, but the silence kills even the relations as well as the person who wants to keep them alive.
Friends I have seen some people around me who are too poor that they do not even have words to keep their beautiful relations alive, they just keep showing ego to the other person who is dying to knoe the reason of silence, like Mrs D who got married with Mr G last year but she is crying almost everyday, just to know the reason why G is not talking to her. She has asked him with love, anger, tears, being silent too, but he is too cruel to speak up. Today I just happened to talk to her while being at home due to Covid-19, there is a lot of time to talk to friends. D was just almost crying that even today she asked him why he has no time to talk to her, while being at home 24 hours, just the two of them, but still he just have time to talk to his brothers and friends far away but not to have any short of conversation.
Really shocking to know that he just goes to her only for sex and never tries to talk, he only, at the max for four days just watched some funny videos with her, she was happy that now they will share their heart and mind too, to get to know each other but then she just tried to talk to him about family, or kids or news around, every time he just remained silent and now again not talking to her since last five days.
There are strange things come up at times, I could find no solution, but the problem is that girls fall in love after marriage and guys i do not know much about, but this person I think has neither mind nor heart, to love a beautiful and sensitive girl like D. G used to say her before marriage that because she was beautiful and fair, therefore he wanted to marry her, but I think if someone says you something like this we must not get married to that person, because they just care about the fairness of body and not of the soul. But she just got into the trap of this person who had done MBA and applied all the things on her to get her fall for him in love. And all of a sudden stopped talking to her after a moth of their marriage. 😦
What to do?? except the suggestion to leave him, but that is also not that easy her mother and mother in law will get heart attack if any such thing happen. 😦